Are we bubble-wrapping children?
Small disappointments, mistakes and social challenges can help children develop flexibility, responsibility and resilience
For most caregivers, the instinct to protect children comes naturally. We want to keep them safe, alleviate disappointment and prevent unnecessary pain. In today’s world, however, where warnings about risk are constant and parenting advice is everywhere, this instinct is often accompanied by a heightened sense of responsibility.
The term ‘bubble-wrapping’ children is often used to describe overprotection: stepping in too quickly, removing discomfort, solving problems before a child has had the chance to attempt, or smoothing out every possible difficulty.
This is usually well intentioned, with most parents acting out of love, concern and a genuine desire to do the right thing. However, when protection becomes excessive, it can reduce the everyday experiences through which children develop independence, emotional resilience and trust in their own abilities.
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